What do Men really Want?
August 30, 2011
It's been a while since I last blogged, but a few things has happened this past week that has raised some concerns and does not sit well with me.
First of all, what do men really want from their wives? And secondly, should they get everything they want?
My life used to be very sedative because of a massive weight problem, but thanks to a life saving operation, I am now overly social and very active. I visit my local women's gym almost daily, and sometimes twice a day.
When I was obese, I used to spend my entire day sitting in front of my computer, only getting up to eat and use the toilet. I remember my husband complaining about me "sitting on my fat ass all day" he would say. He seemed very angry about that, but didn't seem to mind that I was a virtual recluse. (I think he rather enjoyed it actually).
In 2001, I had a Gastric By-pass operation which gave me a massive weight loss of 104 kilos and boosted my ego tremendously. (There's no stopping me now) The fact that I now go out daily seems to bother my husband to no end. He's always complaining that I'm never home. (is that a good thing or a bad thing? who knows!! But I'm enjoying myself)
My argument to his complaint is, I'm not the maid around our house!! Why should I have to clean the house, do the dishes, and do all the washing? Who the hell decided it was the wife's job? (I say "FUCK THEM")
His reply is that I'm the "Wife" and that it's "My Job"... Well, NO, it's not my job... I travel 1 hour (plus) everyday to my job and I bring home a pay packet too... Who the hell decided it's my job, I'll never know!!
I know for a fact that the priest who married us did not say it was my "JOB" as the wife, he just said I had to "Love, Honour, and Cherish, for better or worse, until death do us part"... He didn't say I was the slave for the next 30-40 years... FFS!!
So in order to calm my husband, I made him a proposition. I said either 1) I'm the slave/wife, who cooks and cleans, all the time and is too tired for anything else, or 2) I'm the wife who, goes out, keeps busy/active, but fucks his brains out whenever his dick gets hard!!
Why should he have both? What do I get out of this deal. Well, I want a million dollars to spend....... do you think he can give me that? HELL NO!! Therefore, he's NOT getting everything he wants either... UNTIL DEATH DO US PART, Mudafuka!!
This blog is dedicated to the Asshole I'm sometimes married too!!
First of all, what do men really want from their wives? And secondly, should they get everything they want?
My life used to be very sedative because of a massive weight problem, but thanks to a life saving operation, I am now overly social and very active. I visit my local women's gym almost daily, and sometimes twice a day.
When I was obese, I used to spend my entire day sitting in front of my computer, only getting up to eat and use the toilet. I remember my husband complaining about me "sitting on my fat ass all day" he would say. He seemed very angry about that, but didn't seem to mind that I was a virtual recluse. (I think he rather enjoyed it actually).
In 2001, I had a Gastric By-pass operation which gave me a massive weight loss of 104 kilos and boosted my ego tremendously. (There's no stopping me now) The fact that I now go out daily seems to bother my husband to no end. He's always complaining that I'm never home. (is that a good thing or a bad thing? who knows!! But I'm enjoying myself)
My argument to his complaint is, I'm not the maid around our house!! Why should I have to clean the house, do the dishes, and do all the washing? Who the hell decided it was the wife's job? (I say "FUCK THEM")
His reply is that I'm the "Wife" and that it's "My Job"... Well, NO, it's not my job... I travel 1 hour (plus) everyday to my job and I bring home a pay packet too... Who the hell decided it's my job, I'll never know!!
I know for a fact that the priest who married us did not say it was my "JOB" as the wife, he just said I had to "Love, Honour, and Cherish, for better or worse, until death do us part"... He didn't say I was the slave for the next 30-40 years... FFS!!
So in order to calm my husband, I made him a proposition. I said either 1) I'm the slave/wife, who cooks and cleans, all the time and is too tired for anything else, or 2) I'm the wife who, goes out, keeps busy/active, but fucks his brains out whenever his dick gets hard!!
Why should he have both? What do I get out of this deal. Well, I want a million dollars to spend....... do you think he can give me that? HELL NO!! Therefore, he's NOT getting everything he wants either... UNTIL DEATH DO US PART, Mudafuka!!
This blog is dedicated to the Asshole I'm sometimes married too!!
Posted by Desiree Sheets-Chavolla. Posted In : Bloody Husbands
So I'm supposed to give a description about myself in this section.....I guess my friends would describe me as funny, but I would describe my humour as honesty.......I sort of speak what I feel when I'm feeling it and it come's out funny!! I've created this webpage/blog because I think I have an interesting life and I simply have shit to say!! More importantly I think others will like to hear what I have to say.....and if they don't well they can just get the hell off of my website!! (Well said if I must say so myself) You will read some profanity so if you don't like it change the page and fuck off!!
Ok so I'm a happily married woman, with 4 children, whom I adore!! All with striking personalities. I'm well traveled and have many life experiences which has moulded me into the person I am today.
I'm not planning on watering down my thoughts or words so that I don't hurt or offend anyone's feelings. I'm just going to spill the beans so if your a person easily offended then I suggest not reading my blog.