April 13, 2010
This week, via Facebook, I read the joyous news that my Ex-husband and his '30 something' girlfriend delivered his 4th child. I'm not really sure how I feel about this, but I'm gonna blog a little bit of this story.
I met this man at the end of year 10 in high school. We had a very volatile 6 year relationship which produced my brilliant and able-minded older son. Our relationship ended in divorce!!
A few years later, he moved on and married the sister of my 'Best Friend'!! This relationship produced 2 sons and also ended in divorce, with the splitting of siblings. The older son staying with my Ex, and the younger son going with his mother. (This was a result of my Ex NOT wanting to pay Child Support and typical!!)
This silly man remarried for a third time, to which she brought 3 of her own children into his house. They didn't produce any children together, but became legal guardians to a distant, drugged up, relatives of hers, 2 year old son!! The true-to-form man my Ex-husband is, this relationship also recently ended in divorce, with a court battle over this 2 yr. old child's physical custody. (of course he didn't want to pay child support for this adoptee, so he tried to take this baby off his Ex, who happens to be the child's blood auntie)
Now we get to his "Stupidity"!! He is now in his mid 40's and has shacked up with a 30's something year old woman who has 4 children of her own, and last week she delivered her 5th child giving him his 4th child and first daughter!!
I can imagine he's excited about this but he must not be thinking clearly!! With his relationship track record, I see this situation ending up in the Children's Court, once again!!
When is this man gonna learn?? He needs to STOP getting married and if he doesn't want to pay child support, then the logical thing to do, is to stop reproducing children that need financial support!! I want to be happy for him yet his stupidity wants to make me laugh.
Now, to touch on the part of that entire situation that's bothering ME!!
He has given his first born daughter a name, that is so similar to my first born daughters name, that it's spooky and just plain WIERD!!
I'm feeling "OFF" in the stomach over his choice of dualistic usage of my daughters name. They have spelled it different but it sounds so very similar.
Maybe I should accept this as a form of flattery and be thankful that this situation isn't something that I have to deal with or live with on a daily basis any longer!!
IT FEELS SO GOOD TO SIT ON THE OUTSIDE LOOKING IN!! I'm thanking my 'Lucky Stars' that I was the 'First' wife, with the 'First' born, and the 'First' Ex-wife who used my daughters name "First".
Posted by Desiree Sheets-Chavolla. Posted In : Bloggy Mess
April 6, 2010
If someone, I'll call this person "Romeo", confided in you, that he had had sex with "Juliet", (who happens to be married) and Juliet announces that she's pregnant......what would you do?
Would you keep your mouth shut? Would you feel obliged to tell someone i.e. the husband? Who is your allegiance to?
Romeo happens to be a wonderful guy, but so is Juliet!! Juliet is married and isn't it her responsibility to stay faithful?
This type of dilemma is very hard. First of all, Juliet could pass the... Continue reading...
Posted by Desiree Sheets-Chavolla. Posted In : Dreamworld
April 6, 2010
Since Easter has just past, I want to share with my readers one if my childhood fetishes.
I remember being very excited that the Easter Bunny was coming!! I knew that the Easter Bunny was my mum and dad because I had already found the Easter Baskets hidden under the stairs in our secret pantry the year before. (This discovery led to a lot of spying and testing my parents, to see if all of the magical creatures weren't real i.e. Santa Clause and the Tooth Fairy) Even though I knew that my pare... Continue reading...
Posted by Desiree Sheets-Chavolla. Posted In : Me being Me
April 5, 2010
Bunny's a pun on Funny lol It's Easter Eve (if there's such a thing) and I've managed to get my little daughter (who's still a believer in the Easter Bunny) off to sleep relatively early.
My problem as I see it is, I'm over exhausted and want to collapse in the bed next to her, but my "Easter Bunny" duties still have to be done. (only one more kid to get past the 'believing' stage and I'm FREE!!)
My dilemma is, take a risk and go to sleep (with an alarm set to wake me at some ungodly hour) or... Continue reading...
Posted by Desiree Sheets-Chavolla. Posted In : Special Occasion
April 5, 2010
THIS IS MY FIRST AND LAST WEEKLY BLOG (This is not working out for me it's too hard to remember all the exciting and interesting points) This is my first attempt at a weekly blog!! I'm not sure how it's going to turn out because I'm not used to blogging weekly but here goes.
After Saturday's night out with the G-Unit, I woke up Sunday morning not hung over, but surprisingly with a cold!! I could feel it brewing in my eyes and slightly in my chest. I spent all of Sunday basically recovering and ... Continue reading...
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March 28, 2010
BEWARE THIS BLOG IS LONG!! I arrived home this morning after a fantastic night with my adored G-Unit!! I was buzzing around on a high, because tonight was our planned 'End of Summer Drinks' night out (It isn't really the end of summer, I just came up with this slogan as a reason for us to gather and party). The evening was touted as a "Let Loose" night for everyone to let their hair down. (of course I was giddy that Mr. Pecks was attending.......if I wasn't married I'd attempt to tap that ass... Continue reading...
Posted by Desiree Sheets-Chavolla. Posted In : Special Occasion
March 21, 2010
As some of you can see, I've been taking a break from blogging (Ive still been writing just not posting)!! This brief sabbatical has been my "Get your head together" time!!
I've decided, while I'm working these overnight shifts, that I'm going to only blog short nightly blogs adding up to one weekly blog. (I'm spending to much time sleeping.....trying to retain some of my sanity and all of my youthful appearance......fur fox sakes..... Beauty needs Sleep!!)
Some of the nights that I've been wo... Continue reading...
Posted by Desiree Sheets-Chavolla. Posted In : Work Work Work
March 21, 2010
I prepared well, with pleanty of sleep, for the week of work ahead of me!! I was dreading going into work tonight because I was due to work with "Amarillo" shift and it was Monday night. (First night of the week always seems to drag.....not to mention the Eagle has eyes)
Since I already knew my "Confidant" was taking an RDO (aka Roatered Day Off) I antisipated a long and boring night.
Boy was I greatful when I arrived at the working compound and found one of the productions line in full swin... Continue reading...
Posted by Desiree Sheets-Chavolla. Posted In : Work Work Work
March 21, 2010
I'm sure you all have noticed that I haven't posted a blog for a couple days, that would be because my website has been down for maintenance and/or experiencing some problems!! (I've been unable to access it) I started reading a new book to occupy my free time. (THANK YOU Glam for getting me fuckin hooked on "True Blood"!!)
I also managed to attend my first Pilaties class on Saturday (That was a fuckin eye opener lol). It was one massive abdominal torture session!! (I don't mind a wee bit of ... Continue reading...
Posted by Desiree Sheets-Chavolla. Posted In : Bloggy Mess
March 17, 2010
Somehow, my phone was able to wake me, after only 4 hours!! I'm glad it did!! This allowed me to see, on Facebook, that Pinky was attending the Pilates class at the gym and I was able to surprise her and join in.
Pilates was hard, but not as hard as Yoga. I enjoyed it and pushed myself just that wee bit further. (No pain, No gain.....is what I kept telling myself)
As I was leaving the gym I passed a woman about to pop with child, heading into the gym. Of course my mind gave me it's opinion and ... Continue reading...
Posted by Desiree Sheets-Chavolla. Posted In : Seeing Sydney
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So I'm supposed to give a description about myself in this section.....I guess my friends would describe me as funny, but I would describe my humour as honesty.......I sort of speak what I feel when I'm feeling it and it come's out funny!! I've created this webpage/blog because I think I have an interesting life and I simply have shit to say!! More importantly I think others will like to hear what I have to say.....and if they don't well they can just get the hell off of my website!! (Well said if I must say so myself) You will read some profanity so if you don't like it change the page and fuck off!!
Ok so I'm a happily married woman, with 4 children, whom I adore!! All with striking personalities. I'm well traveled and have many life experiences which has moulded me into the person I am today.
I'm not planning on watering down my thoughts or words so that I don't hurt or offend anyone's feelings. I'm just going to spill the beans so if your a person easily offended then I suggest not reading my blog.
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