February 15, 2010
I decided to skip yesterdays blog because my day was a sleepy blur!! Plus, I wanted to fast forward to today because today happens to be Valentine's Day!!
"Valentine's Day" means a lot of different things, to a lot of different people, and is celebrated accordingly!! The dictionary also gives different definitions!! My dictionary defines Valentine's Day as a day for the exchange of tokens of affection.
The name 'Valentine' derives from the word 'Valens' which means (worthy). So this tells me that only "Worthy" people should receive or exchange tokens of affection. The bigger question is what is considered a "Token".
My dictionary says a 'Token' is something of sentimental value like a keepsake, relic, or souvenir, not a box of chocolates or a bunch of flowers, and definaty not a pair of red undies, hiding in a dresser drawer!! (this would be a'Gay Man's' version of a Valentine token, lol)
I believe that Valentine tokens should be from the heart, body, and soul!! Not something you can pick up at the local shops. 'Loving memories' and 'shows of affections' can be the perfect example of a sentimental keepsake. These displays of affection will stamp their lasting memories in your heart and mind for eternity.
Some men don't know how or what a woman really wants on this special day of love!! Therefore, they head to the shops for a bought display of affection, when what a woman is really hoping for, is for her man to organise for the kids to be cared for by Grandma, then a warm bath to be drawn, lit candles sprawled around the house, romantic music playing softly as he approaches her and gently removes her clothing, while caressing her with soft kisses. Followed by a hot passionate love making session. (if this isn't exactly your style, then modify it with whips, leather, chains, or a strap on dildo, whatever is needed.......to each his own!! Lol)
Love can be displayed in many ways, but only an exhausted orgasm can bring on the euphoric feelings of satisfaction. (I think an "Orgasm" is better than "Chocolate" any day!!)
My "Valentine's Day" started out like many past Valentine's Days. My husband approached me and questioned wether there was any money in our joint spending account (this just oozes with appeal). I knew exactly what he was planning. He does the exact same thing, every year. He was going to the shops to buy me a bunch of flowers and a loving card. While this may seem nice to some of you, the monotony of it gets very old after 20 years. (things would be so much better if we were millionaires.........I'm sure of it)
Well, he didn't disappoint!! However he did throw a small twist into the gift. Usually I receive 'Long Stemmed Red Roses' but today he surprised me with a bunch of my favourite flowers. (the fact that he remembered my favourite flower is a token in itself) I'll consider this my memorable token!!
He also served me, for afternoon tea, a Mexican version of "Caveach" which is a sensual prawn soup, which has an aphrodisiac affect on some people including me!! He's gone to sleep for the moment, but when he wakes up, I plan on giving him a token of my affection that will leave him with a definite lasting memory.
Posted by Desiree Sheets-Chavolla. Posted In : Special Occasion
February 13, 2010
I got home from work this morning feeling like I needed to punch someone!! I decided that I would take a few moments to gather my thoughts and apply some meditation techniques I've learned over the years. I knew If I didn't settle my psyche, I wouldn't be able to sleep.
As I laid on my bed, eyes closed, listening to my breathing and feeling my belly inflate and deflate. I let my mind rest. I concentrated on my inner happiness. (evil souls in this world can eat at your sanity).
My mind wandere...
Posted by Desiree Sheets-Chavolla. Posted In : Work Work Work
February 13, 2010
Try saying that title 5 times quickly....lol
Yesterday I came to work in a jolly mood. That is, until I was snapped back to reality!! I got relieved for my first break, Wonderful!!
As i was returning to my correct place, from a distance, I could see the clock!! (This blog has been edited so get over it!!)
So I decided to apply "Newtons Law". "For every action, there's a reaction". My reaction was to be as happy as I possibly could. I could feel that my face was contorting oddly, as I plastered ...
Posted by Desiree Sheets-Chavolla. Posted In : Work Work Work
February 11, 2010
I woke up tonight feeling very well rested. I can't say anymore that I'm dreading the boring 'Blue Shift', because actually I'm a bit excited!! That would be because my best friend, in the whole wide world, works on that shift. That would be 'The Goddess of the Earth'!! She just happens to be the next door neighbour to my obsession 'Mr. Pecks'. (and married to my 'Chubby Hubby')
I wonder if she would really let me stop by for a cuppa. I think Mr. Pecks would shit himself if he saw me sitting o...
Posted by Desiree Sheets-Chavolla. Posted In : Work Work Work
February 10, 2010
Surprisingly, sleep evaded me today!! It could be because of the excess sleep I received over the weekend, or because I received an S.O.S. text message, from my Best Fag Friend that demanded my immediate attention.
I could tell, by my best fag friends chosen words, that he was distressed!! I quickly replied with a SMS request to meet. (I know my fag well, and I know when something is troubling him!!) He instantly rang me back. He was very upset by some turn of events that needed my mature gui... Continue reading...
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February 9, 2010
I must be bordering on crazy!! I was up at 5:45am on a Monday morning to hit classes at the gym!! Today began the first day of the "Get Foxy Challenge". It was amazing how many other contestants had the same idea as me. (I looked around the room wondering if, in 12 weeks, will the room be this packed? I even wondered if I would be there in 12 weeks)
The first class of the day was "Body Combat". O MY GOD!! That was some crazy exercising!! The instructor, had me kicking and throwing mid-air pun... Continue reading...
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February 9, 2010
Some of you may be having withdrawals from my blog, since I haven't posted since last Thursday. Well, I've been a busy little beaver!! Booking holidays overseas, finding accommodation, searching the Internet for the perfect Lavender Gown for my daughters quincinetta, and on top of all of that, I've been chosen as the "Team Leader" of the Green Team in the "Get Foxy Challenge" at my gym!! (Saying that sentence is a mouthful)
Here is how my weekend started.....My first day off was completely wa... Continue reading...
Posted by Desiree Sheets-Chavolla. Posted In : Me being Me
February 9, 2010
Everyone I speak to seems fascinated with the fact that I can lay my head on the pillow and fall fast asleep in a matter of minutes, anywhere, any time!! This is due to years of training by my mother.
Yesterday morning, I arrived home at 6:05am. My husband arrived at 6:09am. He said he entered our bedroom, and I was fast asleep, snoring!! (this is a fuckin lie, cause I don't snore, lol) (Plus, I don't purposefully hurry home to bed to avoid his morning advances i.e. our house rule: no sex bef... Continue reading...
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February 5, 2010
After yesterday massive sleep in, I only managed to score 3.5 hours of sleep today. This has left me feeling exhausted!! It's my own fault (I'm my own worst enemy). I did however, manage to get a lot accomplished today.
First stop was "Weight Watchers" for my weekly weigh in. I managed to have a very small gain of .2grams. I'm proud of this, considering I haven't charted my meals and I've basically enjoyed most of my meal times. Glam from work, came along this week to join!! I guess she doesn... Continue reading...
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February 4, 2010
Can you believe I've slept most of the day and I'm still tired. My day was pretty uneventful so I'm gonna blog about emotions and concerns that have come to my attention over the last couple days, that didn't make my blog.
The first emotion I'm gonna blog about is 'like' and 'dislike'. Liking people is pretty easy for me. Disliking is another story!! I find it pretty hard to dislike most people!!
The definition of like is; To Be fond of, you would think the definition of dislike is 'not to be ...
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So I'm supposed to give a description about myself in this section.....I guess my friends would describe me as funny, but I would describe my humour as honesty.......I sort of speak what I feel when I'm feeling it and it come's out funny!! I've created this webpage/blog because I think I have an interesting life and I simply have shit to say!! More importantly I think others will like to hear what I have to say.....and if they don't well they can just get the hell off of my website!! (Well said if I must say so myself) You will read some profanity so if you don't like it change the page and fuck off!!
Ok so I'm a happily married woman, with 4 children, whom I adore!! All with striking personalities. I'm well traveled and have many life experiences which has moulded me into the person I am today.
I'm not planning on watering down my thoughts or words so that I don't hurt or offend anyone's feelings. I'm just going to spill the beans so if your a person easily offended then I suggest not reading my blog.
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