This week, via Facebook, I read the joyous news that my Ex-husband and his '30 something' girlfriend delivered  his 4th child. I'm not really sure how I feel about this, but I'm gonna blog a little bit of this story. 

I met this man at the end of year 10 in high school. We had a very volatile 6 year relationship which produced my brilliant and able-minded older son. Our relationship ended in divorce!! 

A few years later, he moved on and married the sister of my 'Best Friend'!! This relationship produced 2 sons and also ended in divorce, with the splitting of siblings. The older son staying with my Ex, and the younger son going with his mother. (This was a result of my Ex NOT wanting to pay Child Support and typical!!)

This silly man remarried for a third time, to which she brought 3 of her own children into his house. They didn't produce any children together, but became legal guardians to a distant, drugged up, relatives of hers, 2 year old son!! The true-to-form man my Ex-husband is, this relationship also recently ended in divorce, with a court battle over this 2 yr. old child's physical custody. (of course he didn't want to pay child support for this adoptee, so he tried to take this baby off his Ex, who happens to be the child's blood auntie)

Now we get to his "Stupidity"!! He is now in his mid 40's and has shacked up with a 30's something year old woman who has 4 children of her own, and last week she delivered her 5th child giving him his 4th child and first daughter!! 

I can imagine he's excited about this but he must not be thinking clearly!! With his relationship track record, I see this situation ending up in the Children's Court, once again!!

When is this man gonna learn?? He needs to STOP getting married and if he doesn't want to pay child support, then the logical thing to do, is to stop reproducing children that need financial support!! I want to be happy for him yet his stupidity wants to make me laugh. 

Now, to touch on the part of that entire situation that's bothering ME!!

He has given his first born daughter a name, that is so similar to my first born daughters name, that it's spooky and just plain WIERD!! 

I'm feeling "OFF" in the stomach over his choice of dualistic usage of my daughters name. They have spelled it different but it sounds so very similar.

Maybe I should accept this as a form of flattery and be thankful that this situation isn't something that I have to deal with or live with on a daily basis any longer!!

IT FEELS SO GOOD TO SIT ON THE OUTSIDE LOOKING IN!! I'm thanking my 'Lucky Stars' that I was the 'First' wife, with the 'First' born, and the 'First' Ex-wife who used my daughters name "First".